Interview: David Nixon of ‘Letters to God’
Posted on April 8, 2010 at 8:00 am
If you were desperately ill, what would you say to God? What would you ask for?
A boy named Tyler had some things he wanted to ask God when he became ill with cancer, and now his story has become a movie, Letters to God. I spoke to the film’s director, David Nixon, who has made a career out of faith-based films that, to the astonishment of Hollywood cynics, have been very successful with audiences. “Letters to God” opens tomorrow.
Tell me about the movie.
It’s the true story of a little boy in Nashville, Tennessee who went through brain cancer. While he was going through the chemo and all the horrible parts of that disease he was writing letters to his best friend, God. And he would put a stamp on it and put it in the mail. And the mailman, knowing that the little boy was a cancer boy, couldn’t bring himself to put those letters in the undeliverable bin — you know, that’s what happens in the post office, and it sits there for about six months and if nobody claims them, they shred them. But the mailman knew the little boy, so he kept the letters and he began to open them. And he discovered that the little boy wasn’t asking for anything for himself. He was asking for help for everyone else in his family, for the people in his neighborhood, for the people that the cancer was affecting, his mother and his grandmother, his brother, the little boy in school who was bullying him, saying things about his shaved head, about his best friend.
So the mailman started giving all those letters to the people the little boy was writing about. And you can imagine how they felt, how they responded. It did not only change the lives of the people in the community but it changed the mailman’s life. He was an alcoholic. His life was turned around because of the faith of the little cancer boy.
An extraordinary story. How did you find out about it?
We were putting together a film deal and looking for scripts and a friend who is a writer, Art D’Alessandro, had just polished the script for a guy up in Nashville, the father of the real boy. He’d never written a screenplay before so he asked Art for help. As soon as I read it, it just connected with me and I got on a plane to Nashville and met with Patrick and his wife and said, “We’ve got to make this movie.” Not just because it was a cancer story — though cancer is a universal theme that touches everyone because we are only about one degree of separation from somebody we know who is going through or has had cancer. But I thought, what a wonderful way to tell the story with the little sweet letters, a great way to get across the message.
I’d like to hear about your commitment to making faith-based films in an industry that does not seem to have as much interest in them as audiences do.
I’ve had this dream for about 30 years. I’ve had a secular production business but always wanted to make these kinds of films. You could never get distribution until something radical happened: “The Passion of the Christ” made $600 million. That opened the eyes of Hollywood. They saw that there was an under-served audience. Christians are going to movies! We’d better make a God film. And we were there with “Facing the Giants.” And that made $35 million. And then the church asked us to do “Fireproof.” And now every studio in LA has a faith-based arm. They are not quite sure what it is, but they know they can make money on it! We’re making as many of these as we can. We’re shooting two more this summer and we’ve got plans for number ten and number 100. We have to make money. But we can certainly use that pipeline to get our message out.
I think films are the greatest evangelical tool of our time. How else do you get to people who would never darken the door of a church. Or to your neighbor over the back yard that would never talk about faith. But they go to movies all the time, so why not use that to deliver your message.
What makes a movie a Christian movie?
You’ve got to have a message. We don’t want to be preachy or overbearing but you’ve got to get the gospel out. You’ve got to come up with a way to tell a true life story or a story that could be true of an average Joe, going through life like anyone else, maybe going through adversity, and how they react to that. Maybe they turn to the Bible instead of the bottle. Or they turn to God instead of the darkness.
That’s all our movies do. They’re telling true stories that people can connect with. It has to be real, or people aren’t going to get it. When people go and sit in that dark room for 90 minutes, and they drop their guard and empathize with those characters they see up on screen, it sears through your heart like nothing else can. People come out of these movies physically and emotionally changed.
And what’s next for you?
We’re making a Christian comedy called “Saving Livingston” and a true story about a girl here in Orlando called “To Write Love on Her Arms.”
What are some of your favorite movies?
“Chariots of Fire” and “The Mission.” Billy Graham’s Worldwide Pictures, the Cecil B. DeMille movies like “The Robe” and “The Ten Commandments. Then Hollywood went away from that and now here we are with a chance to tell these stories again. It’s heartening to me that we’re seeing more of these movies coming out.
This is a story about many people who just happen to have cancer. I can speak out for those with canser. I had cancer and you will never really know the pain or the dark thoughts one can have. The film reveals some of those thing. I prase the film maker for a job well done. Let this not be the last of such films.
I am deeply grateful to you for this heartfelt comment, Mr. Porter. Many thanks for your generosity in sharing. I share your hope that we get more films like this one.
I liked Letters to GOd. It given persons a spiritual sense and a closer grap that God is real in their lives.
Thanks so much, Ms. Pavlitza. A beautiful comment.
As a mom who lost her 8 year old daughtr to cancer 2 years ago, I have to say that this movie hit so close to home. Cancer is a horrible disease as with any terminal illness. Each member of the family and friends is affected in a different way and this movie expressed that. Our faith is what got us through and still helps us today. Our daughter was so much like Tyler, she never thought of herself and what she was going through she was always focused on others, especially her friends that were going through chemotherapy with her. Cancer affects the lifes of so many people and to be able to write these letters to God is such a wonderful thing and so therapeutic. Thank you so much for this movie and praying that many people will be touched and their relationship renewed with God through this. God Bless you.
Cheryl, you and your family have my condolences for your loss, and my thanks for sharing your experience and giving us a chance to know your daughter a little through your loving memories. I am very glad you found something meaningful to connect to in this film. Blessings on you and your family.
Sounds like a lovely movie, I will have to find time to watch it. My daughter has been battling Neuroblastoma for 8 months, in the pre-cancer days, her prayers were for puppies and an imminent desire for ice-cream. Her prayers these last few months have never been for herself, but for her friends, family and that stranger who stared at her in the car park. Sounds like a beautiful movie and I’m sure, will hit very close to home.
I have never met an oncology child who has been anything short of insperational, and I’ve met a lot!
Thank you, Anna. I deeply appreciate your sharing your story about your daughter, who touches many lives, I can tell.