50 Must-See Movies: Fathers

Posted on October 22, 2013 at 3:59 pm

I’m delighted to announce publication of my newest book, 50 Must-See Movies: Fathers. Earlier volumes in the series include the print and ebook 101 Must-See Movie Moments, and the other 99 cent ebooks 50 Must-See Movies: Mothers and 50 Must-See Movies: Weddings. Coming soon, Must-See Movie books about lawyers/judges, nurses/doctors, musicians, and teachers — suggestions welcome!  If you buy any of these books and post a review on Amazon, I will send you an e-version of any one of the others you’d like to have.

The book’s introduction:

What do “Wall Street” and the “Star Wars” saga and, seemingly, about half the movies ever made have in common?  They are about fathers.  In “Wall Street,” Charlie Sheen plays the ambitious Bud, who respects the integrity of his blue-collar father, played by his real-life father, Martin Sheen.  But Bud is dazzled by the money and power and energy of Gordon Gekko (Michael Douglas).  The movie will up the ante with Bud’s father’s heart attack as we see him struggle between the examples and guidance of these two male role models.

In “Star Wars,” Luke (Mark Hamill) does not know until halfway through the original trilogy that (spoiler alert) the evil Darth Vader is his father.  He was raised by his aunt and uncle, who are killed very early in the first film, but the father figures who are most meaningful in his life are the Jedi masters Obi-Wan Kenobi and Yoda.  Like Bud in “Wall Street,” Luke must choose between the good and bad father figures.  Like Luke, Harry Potter is raised by an aunt and uncle, but he finds a true father figure later.  For Harry, it is headmaster Albus Dumbledore.  In opposition is He Who Must Not Be Named.  Like Luke, Harry has the opportunity for great power on the dark side, but he lives up to the example set for him by Dumbledore.

The first stories ever recorded are about fathers.  The central human struggle to reconcile the need for a father’s approval and the need to out-do him is reflected in the “hero of a thousand faces” myths that occur in every culture.  In Greek mythology, Zeus is the son of a god who swallowed his children to prevent them from besting him.  Zeus, hidden by his mother, grows up to defeat his father and become the king of the gods.  Ancient Greece also produced the story of Oedipus, who killed his father and married his mother, and The Odyssey, whose narrator tells us “it is a wise man who knows his own father.”

These themes continue to be reflected in contemporary storytelling, including films that explore every aspect of the relationship between fathers and their children.  There are kind, understanding fathers whose guidance and example is foundation for the way their children see the world.  There are cruel, withholding fathers who leave scars and pain that their children spend the rest of their lives trying to heal.  There are movies that reflect the off-screen real-life father-child relationships.  Martin Sheen not only played his son’s father in “Wall Street;” he played the father of his other son, Emilio Estevez, “The Way,” which was written and directed by Estevez, and which is about a father’s loss of his son.  Will Smith has appeared with his son Jaden in “The Pursuit of Happyness” and “After Earth.”  John Mills appeared with his daughter Hayley in “Tiger Bay,” “The Truth About Spring,” and “The Chalk Garden.”  Ryan and Tatum O’Neill memorably appeared together in “Paper Moon.”  Jane Fonda produced and starred in “On Golden Pond” and cast her father Henry as the estranged father of her character.  Jon Voight played the father of his real-life daughter Angelina Jolie in “Tomb Raider.”  And Mario Van Peebles, whose father cast him as the younger version of the character he played in “Sweet Sweetback’s Badasssss Song” made a movie about the making of that film when he grew up.  It is called “Badasssss!”  In the role of Melvin Van Peebles he cast himself.

Director John Huston deserves some sort of “Father’s Day” award.  He directed both his father and his daughter in Oscar-winning performances, Walter Huston in “The Treasure of the Sierra Madre” and Anjelica Huston in “Prizzi’s Honor.”

Some actors known for very non-paternal roles have delivered very touching performances as fathers.  Edward G. Robinson is best remembered for playing tough guys, but in “Our Vines Have Tender Grapes” he gave a beautiful performance as a farmer who loves his daughter (Margaret O’Brien) deeply.  Cary Grant, known for sophisticated romance, played loving – if often frustrated — fathers in “Houseboat” and “Room for One More.”  “Batman” and “Beetlejuice” star Michael Keaton was also “Mr. Mom.”  Comedian Albert Brooks is a devoted father in “Finding Nemo.”

There are memorable movie fathers in comedies (“Austin Powers,” “A Christmas Story”) and dramas (“To Kill a Mockingbird,” “Boyz N the Hood”), in classics (“Gone With the Wind”), documentaries (“Chimpanzee,” “The Other F Word”), and animation (“The Lion King,” “The Incredibles”).  There are great fathers (“Andy Hardy”) and terrible fathers (“The Shining”).  There are fathers who take care of us (“John Q”) and fathers we have to take care of (“I Never Sang for My Father”).  All of them are ways to try to understand, to reconcile, and to pay tribute to the men who, for better or worse, set our first example of how to decide who we are and what we will mean in the world.

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List: What are the Best (Fictional) Movie Concerts?

Posted on October 11, 2013 at 8:00 am

The A.V. Club has a great discussion about the all-time best fictional movie concerts.  Of course there are many unforgettable documentaries about real concerts like “Woodstock” and “The Last Waltz.”  But what about those left to the imagination in feature films?  They’ve gone some of my favorites here, like Waynestock in “Wayne’s World 2.”  I’d love to see that “Get Him to the Greek” concert at the Greek, and more from Spinal Tap and “The Mighty Wind” folks (I did get to see them play in a real live concert here in Washington, D.C. and it was awesome).  What would you pick?

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List: Movies About Racing Cars

Posted on September 27, 2013 at 8:00 am

In honor of this week’s release of “Rush,” based on the real rivalry of Formula One drivers James Hunt and Niki Lauda, take a look at these movies about racing, some featuring actors who raced cars off screen as well.

Winning Real-life race car driver Paul Newman co-stars with his wife, Joanne Woodward and Robert Wagner in this story of the pressure that the racing life puts on the marriage of a competitive driver.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-eMIFbV0po

Days of Thunder The least believable neurosurgeon in the history of movies is Nicole Kidman in this story of a hot-headed racecar driver (Tom Cruise), but Robert Duvall and the racing scenes make it worthwhile.

The Love Bug series Disney’s beloved little VW Bug with 53 on the side competes with race cars.

The Cannonball Run Burt Reynolds and a bunch of comics star in this goofy story of an illegal cross-country race.

Heart Like a Wheel Bonnie Bedelia brings as much heart to her performance as Shirley Muldowney, the real-life race car driver she portrayed, brought to her ground-breaking achievements as a woman in professional racing.

Talladega Nights: The Ballad of Ricky Bobby Will Ferrell stars in this spoof of racing films, co-starring John C. Reilly, Sasha Baron Cohen, and Leslie Bibb.

Le Mans Steve McQueen plays an American driver in the title race.

Grand Prix James Garner, Eva Marie Saint, Yves Montand, and Toshiro Mifune are the actors, but the star is the photography in John Frankenheimer’s film about Formula One drivers.

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Driven It’s not a good movie, but writer/director Sylvester Stallone manages to put some exciting car action on screen.

 

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List: Witness Protection Movies

Posted on September 13, 2013 at 3:59 pm

In honor of this week’s release of “The Family,” check out some of these movies about characters in the witness protection program.  And no, I am not going to suggest the movies starring Tyler Perry, Larry the Cable Guy, or Dax Shepard.

“My Blue Heaven” Steve Martin is a wiseguy who has some problems adjusting to life in the suburbs in this neglected gem from Nora Ephron — and inspired, I’m sure, from her husband’s work on the non-fiction book that became “Goodfellas.”

“Goodfellas” This masterpiece from Martin Scorsese is based on the real-life gangster-turned-informant Henry Hill.

“Hide in Plain Sight” James Caan stars in this fact-based story of a man whose ex-wife took their children with her into witness protection.  He sues the government to get his children back.

“Sister Act” Whoopi Goldberg plays a nightclub performer who goes into hiding as a nun while the cops track down the man who is trying to kill her.

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Spike Lee’s Must-See List for Aspiring Filmmakers

Posted on July 28, 2013 at 3:46 pm

Director Spike Lee has assembled a list of movies that he says all aspiring filmmakers should see.  It’s a list everyone should look at, filled with canon classics like “Singin’ in the Rain,” “Dr. Strangelove,” “Hoop Dreams,” and “Dog Day Afternoon,” but also including some lesser-known and excellent choices: “Kung Fu Hustle,” “Dead End,” “Fat City,” and “Killer of Sheep.”

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