Limiting Screentime

Posted on January 2, 2014 at 3:59 pm

It’s a challenge to keep kids away from television and computers and tablets and smartphones, especially in the winter when they are indoors much of the time, and when they’re out of school.  And it is a challenge to make sure they get the most out of the time they do spend on media.  The Chicago Sun-Times has some great advice from the wonderful Nicole Dreiske, founder of the Chicago-based International Children’s Media Center, which offers workshops and festivals for teachers, parents and children that promote constructive screen engagement.

“It doesn’t matter how many opportunities kids have to interface with screens, parents are still the most important people in their lives, and the holidays are a time for family.”

Building a positive relationship between parents and children around screen time is an achievable goal, Dreiske contends, one that could result in less tension with children over media and gaming choices and time limits.

A mistake parents make, she said, is that they put themselves solely in the position of the “media warden, trying to monitor all the media coming into the home and that’s never going to work,” Dreiske says.

A more constructive approach is to give children an opportunity to talk about what they’re watching.

I’m honored that this website was one of the resources she recommended for parents.  Many thanks!

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Tribute: James Avery of “The Fresh Prince of Bel Air”

Posted on January 1, 2014 at 9:12 pm

We mourn the loss of actor James Avery, who starred with Will Smith as Uncle Phil in Fresh Prince of Bel Air.  Avery was a Vietnam veteran who became a writer, actor, and voice talent. He was a great foil for Will Smith on “Fresh Prince,” with a commanding presence that suited his role as a lawyer and later a judge.  While he was often the straight man, his comic timing was subtle and if you watch closely you can see how much Smith learned from him over the years.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qL8VJTCnzgo

Avery also provided voices for animated characters as wide-ranging as The Shredder in “Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles” and War Machine in “Iron Man.”  He hosted “Going Places,” a popular travel and adventure series on PBS.  He memorably played disabled characters, a legally-blind witness to a murder on CSI and a wheelchair-bound medical examiner on “The Closer.”

He died at age 68 from complications following open heart surgery.  His last film, aptly named “Valediction,” has been a festival favorite and I hope it will be available streaming or in theaters later this year.  May his memory be a blessing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bsAw4mDOvOE
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The Thundermans — Download a Free Episode of Nickekodeon’s New Series

Posted on October 28, 2013 at 8:00 am

Nickelodeon’s new series “The Thundermans” begins this week and you can download an episode for free from iTunes.  It’s the story of a superhero family, twins Max and Phoebe, their younger siblings Nora and Billy, and their parents Hank and Barb.  The twins partake in a little sibling rivalry when Max plans to sabotage his sister’s dinner party, when they compete against each other in the Math Bowl, and when a prank war breaks out. The twins eventually start to work together as a pesky plant takes over the house, and they get into some ditch day trouble at school. Max must create a clone of Phoebe when she has to be in too many places at once, the twins help each other fill a big order at their new pizza parlor jobs, and much more.  Watch this super family work together to use their extraordinary powers to create an ordinary life.

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Tribute: Marcia Wallace

Posted on October 27, 2013 at 11:24 pm

The brave, beautiful, and very funny actress Marcia Wallace has died at age 70 after a long battle with breast cancer.  I loved her as the receptionist on the old “Bob Newhart Show” and as a guest on 70’s game shows and talk shows, where her wit and impeccable comic timing made her a stand-out.  She won an Emmy for providing the voice of Mrs. Krabappel, the sarcastic teacher with the world’s most impossible fourth-grade student on “The Simpsons.”  When she was first diagnosed with cancer, she became a spokeswoman for those struggling with the disease and an advocate for education and research.  Her book, Don’t Look Back, We’re Not Going That Way is subtitled: “How I overcame a rocky childhood, a nervous breakdown, breast cancer, widowhood, fat, fire and menopausal motherhood and still manage to count my lucky chickens.” A lot of us counted her among our luckiest chickens, and she will be missed.

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Participate in an Important Study of the Impact of Screen Time on Kids

Posted on October 17, 2013 at 8:00 am

Parents — Here is your chance to help scientists who are studying the impact of screen time on children.  No generation has been as saturated with media as this one.  Babies learn to play with smartphones and tablets before they can talk.  Children expect to be able to watch movies on a 10-minute drive to the grocery store.  You can help scientists understand the scope and impact of screen time on kids by taking ten minutes to fill out this survey (you might even win a prize, just for participating).  The study is being undertaken by Dr. Robert Pressman who told the Boston Globe:

Technology is not all negative. It’s like water?—?we need to have water, but if we have too much, we drown. Technology is extraordinarily compelling. It’s addictive. It’s a time sink. Clinically, we have children spending hours with a screen after they go to . They may not go to sleep until 1 or 2 in the morning. Parents are exasperated; they have given up.

And it starts at an early age. The other day, in the elevator, a mother had two toddlers in this double playing with some child-oriented screen. They weren’t interacting with each other, weren’t interacting with Mom. I try to be open-minded, to say it’s entertainment. Should it be eliminated? Definitely not. It’s an important advancement. I get the biggest kick out of seeing my 5-year-old granddaughter playing on her VTech while her older brother is engrossed in a new app on his iPad. I also wonder what impact it might have on them. Like most parents, I’m hoping to get some answers.

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