Interview: David L. Cook of Seven Days in Utopia

Interview: David L. Cook of Seven Days in Utopia

Posted on August 31, 2011 at 3:55 pm

Sometimes real life feels like a metaphor.  Sometimes it feels like a parable.  David L. Cook is the author of Seven Days in Utopia: Golf’s Sacred Journey.  He told me his story about his own time in the real-life town of Utopia, Texas, how it changed him, and how he has brought its message to others.  Don’t forget to enter my contest to win a copy of his book.

 What does it feel like to have your story turned into a movie?

It’s really special.  You can’t really put words to it.  Life changes on a razor’s edge.  One day, I was just living life in Utopia and the next day I happened to notice a hand-written sign on a half piece of paper on a bulletin board in the cafe that said Utopia Driving Range next to the cemetery and it said, “Come Find Your Game.”  It intrigued me so I went out there and I found this beautiful cemetery with oak trees and a rock wall around it, and about ten steps outside of it were three pieces of astroturf, really bad golf balls, and a bunch of weeds and a pasture on the other side of a barbed wire fence, and this was what they called the driving range.  It was pathetic!

I felt like this was the place where the Lord said, “Write a book.”  I went home, got my computer out, on the porch of an 1874 farmhouse and began to write.  My fingers didn’t stop for hours.  This story came pouring out. One day before, I was just walking around Utopia.  The next day, I’m in the middle of writing a book.  Now, five years later, we’re sitting here talking about a movie with Robert Duvall.

It’s unbelievable how all that happened.  But God has a purpose and a calling and we know that, we step into it and he gets the glory.  It’s a great adventure.

I’m very intrigued by the idea of “Come Find Your Game.”  Tell me more about that.

In the book and the movie, the mentor challenges this young kid who’s shown up having had a horrible meltdown in his life, in the middle of a golf tournament, in front of lots of people, and driving out into the middle of nowhere, this little town of Utopia and he meets this old rancher who says, “Spend some time with me and you’ll find your game.”  He didn’t really know what it meant, but in the end he learns that life is much bigger than golf.  The rancher will teach him about golf but all along he’s really weaving in principles about life.  “I’m going to help you find your life.”  Finding your game really is: What is your true purpose and calling?  Are you allowing your talents to come out?  Are you giving God the glory?

Why are sports such a powerful metaphor for the things that are meaningful to us in life?

People love sports because of the competition, because there’s a tangibility — success, failure, there’s a score.  You can see improvement.  And they like it because it takes them out of their everyday life.  In the midst of sports you see these stories unfolding that mimic life.  It’s kind of a microcosm, a way to look at life through a two-hour game or a World Series.

Is golf especially spiritual?

No.  God created the universe and all its elements.  Nothing is more spiritual than anything else.  But you find that when you walk with God in every aspect of life, the parables that unfold in front of your eyes — God goes with you into that, whether it’s bowling or golf or curling or football.  When we take Him with us and use the gifts and talents that He gives us within that, it’s all a spiritual experience.  Every moment, every step we take, every breath we take is an opportunity to move closer to God or away from God or to help others move closer or away from Him.

What have you heard from those who have been influenced by your book?

Someone’s life is literally touched by the words that come through someone else’s hands.  I scribed this.  I’m not smart enough to write some of the things I’ve found embedded in this story.  I’m just scribing it.  When other people say it means something to them and affects their life — that’s pretty amazing.

There’s a women’s prison in Ohio where a lady was teaching a Biblical Principles class.  She took the lesson of the “buried lie” from the book to ladies who have never played golf, never will play golf, probably never step on a golf course.  They went out into the recreation area with the plastic spoons from their lunch and began to dig holes for their lies to change their lives, give all their false identities away.  She said a revival broke out with all the other inmates around them, singing praise songs and crying.

Golf is unusual because there’s no referee.

Golf is supposed to be that place where we self-police and you do get those characters who put down the wrong score or kick the ball with their foot.  That is just hilarious.

How did a small town in Texas get the name Utopia, which means an ideal community?

A guy named Captain William Ware started this town and named it after himself.  The cemetery is still called “Waresville.”  It’s in a valley with a crystal clear river that flows through here and mountains in every direction.  They’re Texas mountains — they’d be called hills anywhere else!  It’s just a really, really beautiful spot.  After Ware died, it began to be called Utopia.  I don’t know if that meant they didn’t like him or they just liked the name.  It’s close to Utopia — except that it’s 104 degrees today!

Are many people afraid of success?

Yes, yes.  There’s two fears, one’s the fear of failure and the other is a fear of success.  You look at Tiger Woods — who would want to be that?  Media sets up the superstars for the great fall.  A lot of people at every different level shy away from being all they can be because they know the perils of the limelight.

Who have been your greatest teachers?

A gentleman named Johnny Arreaga was my childhood mentor and golf pro.  He would hit a really great shot, and he’d turn and put his club back and say, “Picasso.”  One day, when I was 14, I asked, “What do you mean, Picasso?”  So he says, “Cookie, for every shot you’ve got a blank canvas.  You’ve got to create a masterpiece in your mind’s eye before you ever take the shot.  When I hit a shot, I sign it: Picasso.  You have to make up your mind.  If you don’t create a masterpiece in your mind before everything you do in your life, you will have a lifetime of unfulfilled stick-figure outcomes.”

 

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Win Win

Posted on August 22, 2011 at 8:00 am

B+
Lowest Recommended Age: Mature High Schooler
MPAA Rating: Rated R for language
Profanity: Very strong language
Alcohol/ Drugs: Drinking, teen smoking, offscreen drug abuse
Violence/ Scariness: Offscreen violence, tense confrontations
Diversity Issues: None
Date Released to Theaters: March 25, 2011
Date Released to DVD: August 22, 2011
Amazon.com ASIN: B0057LOEGS

Writer-director Tom McCarthy gives us stories of the families we choose.  In “The Station Agent” and “The Visitor” the main characters were loners who found themselves unexpectedly drawn into caring for people who were very far outside their usual circles.  In this, McCarthy gives us a man who already has a loving, stable family and a best friend (“The Station Agent’s” Bobby Cannavale) and is under enormous stress trying to take care of everyone.  But he, too ends up meeting someone who at first seems a threat, then a burden, and then, somehow, family.

Paul Giamatti plays Mike Flaherty, a lawyer with a solo practice that is not bringing in the money he needs for repairs at the office and at home.  Most of his clients are indigent but Leo, a man in the early stages of dementia (“Rocky’s” Burt Young), has a comfortable bank account.  In a guardianship proceeding, Mike impulsively has himself appointed as guardian so that he can get the fee.  Then he puts Leo in an assisted living facility, contrary to his assurances at the hearing that he would keep Leo in his own home.

Mike did not know that Leo had any relatives.  But a teenage grandson who has never seen Leo turns up.  His name is Kyle (newcomer Alex Shaffer).  He has dyed blonde hair and he smokes.  His mother, Leo’s daughter, is in rehab and he has come to stay with Leo.  Mike and his wife Jackie (Amy Ryan) reluctantly take him in.  Mike coaches the high school wrestling team part-time.  Kyle turns out to be an exceptional wrestler.  He begins to work out with the team.

There is a wonderful decency, naturalism, and humanity to this story, thanks to a sensitive script and superb performances.  Ryan and Giamatti have the rhythms of a long-married couple, with a real sense of established teamwork, and appreciation.  Her “what is that?” expression and his “it’s okay and under control” gesture to her are eloquent in conveying their depth of trust and understanding.  The look on Mike’s face when he wishes Kyle luck in keeping his secrets reflects more than a decade of seeing her ability to get the truth out of anyone.  And yet Mike himself is keeping bigger and bigger secrets from Jackie.  He thought it would not hurt anyone.  But there really isn’t any such thing as win-win.  Someone always pays a price.

 

 

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Soul Surfer

Posted on April 7, 2011 at 6:01 pm

Bethany Hamilton (AnnaSophia Robb) tells us that as a child she spent more time wet than dry. She is the daughter of competitive surfers, home-schooled so that nothing would interfere with her training or her opportunity to go out into the water when the waves were good. And then one morning, when she was 13, a shark bit off her arm up to the shoulder. Determined that nothing could stop her from doing what she loved, she was back on her board a month later.

Two powerful forces kept her going, Bethany’s passion for surfing and her faith in God. This movie does a better job with the first than the second. The surfing scenes both before and after her injury are gorgeously portrayed, taking us inside the waves so that you will almost feel the spray on your face as the surfers rip around the swells. Writer-director Sean McNamara and the talented surfers on screen convey not just the experience of harnessing the power of the ocean but the thrilling rush of it as well. But he does not bring the same energy to the faith-based part of the film, which feels flat and more dutiful than heartfelt, like a youth group curriculum pulled off the Internet.

One problem is Carrie Underwood, a lovely performer who just does not have the acting skill she needs for Sarah Hill, the youth counselor who guides Bethany both before and after the attack. Perhaps because the film-makers are trying to please both faith and secular audiences, the faith-based elements of the story are thin and vague, reduced to a parable about not being able to see the big picture when you are too close and a trip to a very tidy settlement area in Thailand after the tsunami. The mention of Jeremiah 29:11 is not as significant as her doctor’s reassurance that “the things you are going to have to learn to do differently is extensive but the things you won’t be able to do is small.”

The real turning point is the scene where Bethany receives a prosthetic arm that does not give her the functionality she expected. That is a far greater blow than the original injury because it is only then that she must acknowledge that her loss is permanent. It is only then that she is able to have an honest re-evaluation of her faith, her priorities, and her options. In another sober moment, Bethany’s father (Dennis Quaid) silently matches the bite mark on Bethany’s surfboard with the enormous jaws of a captured shark, confirming that this was the beast that attacked his daughter.

Robb conveys Bethany’s resilience and athleticism. McNamara has a good sense for the rhythms of teen girl friendships (I still think that Bratz is underrated) and the scenes with Bethany and her friends capture the warmth and excitement of young girls on the brink of mastery of skills and the beginning of independence.  But like its main character, it really comes alive when it catches the waves.

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Secretariat

Posted on January 24, 2011 at 8:00 am

B+
Lowest Recommended Age: 4th - 6th Grades
MPAA Rating: PG for brief mild language
Profanity: Brief mild language
Alcohol/ Drugs: Social drinking
Violence/ Scariness: Tense scenes, family conflicts, sad death
Diversity Issues: A theme of the movie
Date Released to Theaters: October 8, 2010
Date Released to DVD: January 25, 2011
Amazon.com ASIN: B004DK5CW4

This is the story of two champions. One is the most celebrated horse of the 20th century, the only non-human athlete to be included on Sport’s Illustrated’s 1999 list of the top 100 athletes of the last hundred years for achieving one of the most sought-after titles in sports, the racing triple crown, with records unbroken decades later.

The other was the housewife who won him by being on the losing side of a coin toss.

Secretariat, called “Red” by everyone but the officials and record-keepers, was a winner from his very first moments, when he astonished the small group who observed his birth by standing up more quickly than any foal they had ever seen.

His owner was a bit more of a long shot. Penny Chenery Tweedy was a housewife and full-time mother when she took over what she and her family thought of as temporary management of her ailing father’s farm. The farm was in trouble. Its one asset was the upcoming coin toss to determine which of two foals about to be born would remain with the farm, and which would go to the owner of the stud horse. Penny (Diane Lane) lost the coin toss but won the horse she wanted, bred for both speed and stamina. She called him Red.

Director Randall Wallace knows how to make an audience cheer (he wrote “Braveheart” and wrote and directed “We Were Soldiers”). By focusing on the least likely character to succeed and the challenges she faced, he adds some tension to the story. We know Secretariat is going to win, but do not know whether Penny will be able to keep him, or how her decision to take over the farm will affect her family. And he introduces us to Secretariat’s team, played by a superb supporting cast. John Malkcovich adds flair as Quebecois trainer Lucien Laurin, who “dresses like Superfly and is trying to retire.” Senator/”Law & Order” star Fred Dalton Thompson plays mentor Bull Hancock with just the right avuncular rumble. Margo Martindale, one of those know-her-face-but-don’t-know-her-name character actors, delivers the perfect combination of asperity and loyalty as the devoted assistant who came up with the name Secretariat. Newcomer Otto Thorwarth shows us why the right jockey matters so much, and “True Blood’s” Nelsan Ellis is enormously moving as the man who spent more time with the triple-crown-winner than anyone else. And what a pleasure, as always, to see the exquisite Diane Lane, at last in a role worthy of her talent and beauty. In this movie, she is the champion who gets to run the race she was born for.

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Legendary

Posted on September 9, 2010 at 6:07 pm

B-
Lowest Recommended Age: High School
MPAA Rating: Rated PG-13 for suggestive material, brief partial nudity and some fighting scenes
Profanity: Some crude high-school insults
Alcohol/ Drugs: Character abuses alcohol
Violence/ Scariness: Some fights, bully
Diversity Issues: None
Date Released to Theaters: September 10, 2010

A skinny teenager wants to wrestle in this unpretentious film with a predictable storyline (it even gives away the ending in the first minute) but benefits from some sharp dialog and the always watchable Patricia Clarkson.
Cal Chetley (Devon Graye) has a lot of spirit and a great relationship with his widowed mother (Patricia Clarkson) — until she finds out that like his late father and estranged brother he wants to join the wrestling team. She points out that he’s a beanpole while his brother Mike is “built like a car.” But he has been picked on by a bully and would like to be able to defend himself physically as well as he does verbally. And joining the team gives him a reason (and an excuse) to try to repair the connection to Mike (the WWE’s John Cena).
It’s your basic sports plot. There’s the meet where he fails miserably. There’s the secret hold he has to be ready to learn. The wrestling and the relationship between the brothers seems to make progress and then hits some obstacles on the way to the big meet.
It may satisfy wrestling fans but it is unlikely to make the sport compelling to anyone who is not already knowledgeable. It is more likely to make some new fans for Graye, who is instantly likable as he stands up to a bully, gently teases his mother about her date, and even more gently helps his friend Luli (Madeleine Martin in the film’s weakest performance) understand that she is not valuing herself enough. Cena is well cast as a big guy who keeps a lot inside, and Danny Glover plays a helpful guide who somehow always shows up when he is needed, though no one ever sees him but Cal. Clarkson makes the mother real and touching, bringing a wry affection and touching pride to her moments with Cal and a fierce urgency to the family tensions. Her scene with Martin, as two women living in male-dominated households, is a highlight that reminds us where the real victories are.

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