Grudge Match

Posted on December 24, 2013 at 6:00 pm

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Not that this is going to come as a surprise to anyone, but this movie is not just bad, it is sad.  The stars of two of the greatest boxing movies of all time are not just slumming here.  They trash their pasts and ours, too, with a bunch of jokes about prostates, jock itch, hookers, the financial rewards of Kardashian sex tapes, and what “BJ” stands for.  If you think it is hilarious for a father and grandfather tell a child that “BJ” stands for butterscotch jellybeans — wink wink nudge nudge — then this is the movie you’ve been waiting for.  Oh, and a prison rape joke.  When the end credits list the roles in the film as “tranny hooker” and “puking boxer,” you get the idea. Plus, there’s an extended scene with a bucket of horse urine.

“Razor” Sharp (Sylvester Stallone from “Rocky’) and Kid (Robert De Niro from “Raging Bull”) play former light heavyweight champions who fought each other twice, one win for each.  They bitterly dislike each other  for personal and professional reasons.  But they agree to throw some punches for a computer game.  Footage of them scuffling at a video game studio in green motion capture suits goes viral and the impulsive and ambitious son of their former promoter (Kevin Hart) persuades them to fight each other for real.  Cue the training montage and the jokes that ended up on the cutting room floor from “Grumpy Old Men.”
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Razor agrees to the fight because he needs the money.  He is broke, losing his job, and caring for his old trainer (Alan Arkin).  Kid agrees to fight because he wants to win.  He’s doing fine financially, with a car dealership and a bar called “Knock Out.”  In one of several sad, soggy call-outs to previous greatness, his shtick-y puppet routine in the bar is a reminder of the brilliant end of “Raging Bull,” when an overweight Jake LaMotta tries to perform in his nightclub.  It still rankles him that he lost the last bout with Razor and he is sure he can win this time.

Kim Basinger shows up as the real reason for the feud.  And there’s a long-lost son who happens to be just the guy to get Kid back in shape, starting with getting the fighter to stop those breakfasts of Scotch and pancakes.  The son’s name is BJ and he is played by John Bernthal, the only person in this movie who comes off with any class and dignity, even when the script calls for him to forgive a man whose idea of babysitting is to take a child to a bar while he goes off to have sex with someone he just met in the parking lot.  Poor Alan Arkin for the second time in 2013 is stuck with the role of the guy who insults the staff at his assisted living facility and is supposed to be funny just because it’s an old guy being crude.

There are many, many jokes about how old these guys are.  They are bad.  There are winking references to their better work.  They are awful.  So is this movie.

Parents should know that this movie includes extremely crude sexual references and very strong and vulgar language for a PG-13, as well as a car crash and boxing violence with some graphic images of injuries.

Family discussion: Why does Kid want to fight? Who were you rooting for and why?

If you like this, try: “Rocky” and “Raging Bull”

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Saving Mr. Banks

Posted on December 13, 2013 at 5:17 pm

Saving Mr BanksFor most of this story, Walt Disney (Tom Hanks) and P.L. Travers (Emma Thompson) are on opposite sides.  He has been trying for twenty years to persuade her to let him make a movie based on her books about the magical nanny, Mary Poppins.  She needs money, as her agent reminds her, which is why she has very reluctantly agreed to leave home and fly to Los Angeles to talk to him about it.  But she cannot bear the idea of losing control of the characters who mean so much to her and she abhors everything about Disney and California, including sunshine, cheerfulness, twinkling, music, and calling people by their first names.

But there is one moment when, in the midst of some obvious culture clash jokes, there is a quiet moment that shows they are both on the same side.  Disney tells Travers that he was in her position when someone wanted to pay him for Mickey Mouse and he simply could not bear the agony of allowing anyone else to make decisions about a character he had created.  Travers says that Mary Poppins and the Bankses are her family.  But in a very real way, the character these artist created are their own very souls.  “We restore order with imagination,” Disney tells her.  And, engagingly, throughout the film we see the process, the inspiration, the despair, the triumph, the necessity of creating art, from a father soothing his little girl with a story to songwriters puzzling out a way to show Mary Poppins’ upside down world by having the tune go up as she sings the word “down.”

We all know how it turned out.  Disney’s “Mary Poppins,” celebrating its 50th anniversary next year, is one of the beloved and honored family films of all time, with five Oscars (Best Actress, Song, Special Effects, Score, and Editing) and eight more nominations.  But anyone who has read the books knows that there are some major departures from the Travers version, and that the fears she expressed — as documented in tape recordings of her sessions with the screenwriter and songwriting team — were more than justified.

Some people have criticized this film as Disney’s burnishing of its own brand, with its founder portrayed as a decent man who is just trying to keep a two-decade old promise to his daughters to make a movie from one of their favorite books.  Amy Nicholson writes in LA Weekly that “Saving Mr. Banks” is “a corporate, borderline-sexist spoonful of lies.”  She says that Thompson’s “Travers is as unpleasant as a pine needle pillow, and she’s as far away from the actual woman as ‘supercalifragilisticexpialidocious’ is from being a real word” when in fact she was a “a feisty, stereotype-breaking bisexual.”  I think this is a misreading of the film’s attitude toward Disney, Travers, “Mary Poppins” (the movie), and what it means to be a creative person in a world that is very imperfect when it comes to assigning monetary value to art (see also: “Inside Llewyn Davis”).  To come to Nicholson’s conclusion, one has to assume that the movie wants us to believe that Disney somehow outsmarted Travers by improving her work.  On the contrary, the movie makes it clear that the movie Mary Poppins was very different from Travers’ idea of the characters, moving them several decades earlier, for a start, and, crucially, as indicated in the title of this film, transforming an episodic storyline about children’s adventures with a magical nanny into a story about parents discovering the importance of being close to their children.  It is Nicholson who underestimates Travers by suggesting she was somehow snookered.  She made a decision that it was worth it to her to let that happen to get the money she needed to be as financially independent as she wished.  As is shown in the very first scene, she could have made money another way — by writing more books about Mary Poppins, for a start — but she chose to consent to the movie, and then to make absolutely sure that no American would ever touch her characters again.

colin-farrell-saving-mr-banks-gintyWhile the cute culture clashes and Travers’ resistance to Disney’s brand of pixie dust are featured in the movie’s trailers, the film itself devotes a substantial amount of time to Travers’ childhood, clearly taking her very seriously as a woman and an artist.  We see her as a child dearly loved by the father she adored (a superb Colin Farrell), a man of great imagination and charm, but, perhaps in part due to those same qualities, not able to manage life as a banker in the far reaches of Australia. As we see him sink from manager at a bank to manager at a smaller bank to teller, fans of the Poppins books will remember her description of what Mr. Banks did at the office (it is not coincidental that he shares a name with his profession).  He “made money.”  Meaning that, at least in his children’s minds, he sat at his desk cutting out coins each day.  Some days he was able to cut out many, and the family was quite comfortable.  But other days he was not as productive, and there were fewer coins to go around.

We can see the origins of this idea and many other Mary Poppins book details in Travers’ past, a seemingly bottomless carpet bag, a crisp “spit spot” from an imposingly organized woman who arrives to put the household in order.  But the most telling detail from the past is the key to the invention of Travers’ most important character: herself.  Her name is not P.L. Travers at all.  Nor is she Mrs. Travers, despite her insistence that Mrs. Travers is what she prefers to be called.  The Australian girl who would grow up to be the ultra-English P.L. Travers is named Helen Lyndon Goff, called “Ginty” by her dad.  His name was Travers Robert Goff.  She took his first name as her last name and put a “Mrs.” in front of it to create the character she chose to be.  This revelation, and Thompson’s brilliant portrayal of Travers show us a woman whose most important creation was the character she pretended to be — or became.

And of course Disney, too, played a character, the folksy host who was going to entertain you no matter how hard you tried to resist, and very well aware that these qualities were his best assets as a businessman.  He insists on taking Travers to Disneyland (beautifully recreated as it was in 1961).  Disney is persuasive enough to get Travers onto the carousel and canny enough to tell her the truth — that getting her on a ride won him a $20 bet.  And he tells her a story about his childhood, showing that just because he promotes an idealized vision of the world does not mean that he is unfamiliar with its harshness and disappointments.

Thompson gives one of the best performances of the year, showing us the insecurity and humanity and wit of a woman who is far more complex than she wishes to appear.  Jason Schwartzman and B.J. Novak as the song-writing Sherman Brothers and Paul Giamatti as the limo driver are all excellent as characters who underscore the theme of art as a path to meaning.  The glimpses of the “Mary Poppins” movie are so entrancing (okay, I had to come home and watch it again and am still humming “Step in Time”) that it is easy to be temporarily distracted from the bittersweetness of the story.  Hmmm, where have I heard that idea before?

Parents should know that this film includes the very sad death of a parent, substance abuse, a suicide attempt, tense confrontations, and some disturbing images.

Family discussion:  What did Walt Disney and P.L.Travers have in common?  What do you learn about her from her relationship with the driver?  How can you take details around you and make them into a story?

If you like this, try: the Mary Poppins books by P.L. Travers and the Disney musical film and the documentary “The Boys,” about the Sherman Brothers

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Interview: Bruce Boxleitner of “Silver Bells”

Posted on November 30, 2013 at 8:00 am

Bruce Boxleitner stars in Silver Bells, premiering on UP TV tomorrow, Sunday, December 1st at 7pm, 9pm and 11pm ET.  It is the story of a Type A, very competitive dad who wants everything his family does to be the best, including Christmas.  He talked to me about his own family’s Christmas celebrations and making the movie in a small and very cold town in Michigan.

Are you at all like your character?  Are you kind of a pushy guy when it comes to holiday celebrations?silver_bells_inline_v2

I was more so in the past when my kids were younger.  I always felt the enthusiasm to make the most out of Christmas for my kids and decorating and all that comes with that.  You want to keep that alive with them as long as possible.  They’re all grown up young men now so they realize there’s something fishy about Santa Claus, but we would all love children all their lives to believe in Santa Claus.

What kind of holiday celebrations did you have growing up?

Well, my mom was very just sort of classic, with the anticipation when you set up the tree the week before and then you wait for that much anticipated evening.  We had Christmas carols playing all the time on the little hi-fi.  That’s how old I am, all the Andy Williams, Frank Sinatra, all those kinds of classics.  And of course there was baking going on.  I have my mother and three sisters so they always have their Christmas cookies and pies and stuff.  And then on Christmas day, when you’re up before the sun and got everybody up, you just couldn’t wait.  I don’t think that ever changes whatever generation.  We had opening of presents and celebration all day and then we went up in my grandmother’s farm for a big Christmas dinner with everybody.

Are there any special holiday movies that you try to watch every year?

I love Christmas movies.  That’s why what attracted me to “Silver Bells,” the way it had a similar theme to “It’s A Wonderful Life” with Jimmy Stewart.  I think that’s everybody’s favorite.  It’s always been my favorite.  I’m still at tears at the end.  They’re not the same, but this one also has redemption in the end, redeeming himself in the eyes of his son, and his wife, and daughter, and ultimately his community after he humiliated himself.  And the Anthony Vargas character was sort of his angel.

Also I love “A Christmas Story.”  I had that rifle Every kid in the 1960s did.  “Be careful.  You’ll put your eye out!”

Tell me about making this film, working with the other actors.

You instantly form these relationships.  Long winter days after in Manatee, Michigan, that’s the town, and was perfect.  It looks like it’s right from the 30’s or 40’s.  I blessed with actors who had a lot of chemistry and were all professional and know what’s required.  I have grown sons, my boys so it wasn’t hard to play the father of a teenage boy.  It wasn’t hard to look at Kenton as my own son.  I think you just sit around and in between sets and stuff and we all have the same cold.  And this was a low budget film so there weren’t a lot of frills involved.  We all huddled together under the service tent in the cold in our parkas.  So when you have those kind of adversities, when there’s something like that, where none of us were from there, we all had that bonding right there.

I love working with everybody and the kids are my family but I especially got along with Antonio Fargas.  We just got on because we like old rock music, blues music, and Dylan, and Elvis, and all those things so that bonding was right away.  He and I would sing, try to stump each other and sing songs on the way to location. And we all would go to the hotel at night and have dinner.  Yeah, we did.  Those are the things that we do that bonds us together to see that chemistry in the film.  

When families watch this movie together, what do you want them to talk about afterwards?

How you’ve got to take the time to enjoy the people in your family, that precious, precious time before everybody split up and go to their way in life.  And I think that my character appreciated that he didn’t get the credit, someone else did, and the satisfaction that comes with that.

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Black Nativity

Posted on November 26, 2013 at 5:00 pm

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Lowest Recommended Age: Middle School
MPAA Rating: Rated PG for thematic material, language, and a menacing situation
Profanity: Some strong language
Alcohol/ Drugs: References to substance abuse
Violence/ Scariness: Teenager threatens someone with a gun, references to violence
Diversity Issues: A theme of the movie
Date Released to Theaters: November 27, 2013

Black-Nativity-by-true-Colors-Theatre-Company-photo-courtesy-of-Soul-of-AmericaThe poet Langston Hughes wrote a play called “Black Nativity,” a joyous African-American retelling of the story of the birth of Jesus with gospel music, and it has become a holiday perennial. Now it has been adapted by writer/director Kasi Lemmons (“Eve’s Bayou”) with a framing present-day story of a prodigal daughter, estranged from her parents for 16 years, brought back home at Christmas as “Black Nativity” is being performed in her father’s church.

Oscar-winner Jennifer Hudson plays Naima, a single mother in Baltimore who has lost her job and is trying everything she can think of to keep her home.  But even with two jobs, she and her 15-year-old son Langston (17-year-old Jacob Latimore), named for the poet, are about to be evicted.  Niama has no other options left.  She puts Langston on a bus to New York to see the grandparents he has never met, knowing nothing about them or the cause of their estrangement.

Langston is hurt, lost, and angry.  He is frustrated that he cannot do more to help his mother and determined to find a way to get her the money she needs to keep their home.  Things go badly when his bag is taken by a kid as soon as he gets off the bus and he is arrested trying to return a man’s wallet because the police think he is trying to steal it.  In jail, he meets Loot (Tyrese Gibson), who jeeringly calls him “Lunch Money” and makes Langston feel powerless and disrespected.

His grandfather, Reverend Cornell Cobbs (Forest Whitaker), is formal and reserved.  His grandmother, Aretha (Angela Bassett) is affectionate but clearly in pain over the past and afraid of being hurt again.  Langston will do anything to feel that he is taking control of what is happening to him so he can return home.

Impressionistically told, with songs that serve as monologues, the movie becomes more powerful when Cornell’s church stages a gorgeous production of “Black Nativity” and Langston nods off to have a gospel-inspired dream that features Nas and, as an angel with white hair sticking up like a dandelion ready to make a wish, Mary J. Blige.  When Langston sneaks out of the service in a desperate attempt to get the money, it leads to a confrontation revealing in ways he could not anticipate.  The concluding scenes of redemption and reunion are tender and transcendent.  

Parents should know that the storyline concerns foreclosure and eviction, family estrangement, law-breaking, teen pregnancy, and abandonment.  A teenager uses a gun.

Family discussion:  Why didn’t Langston’s family want to tell him the truth? What did the watch symbolize to Cornell?  What did we learn from Langston’s dream?

If you like this, try: the poetry of Langston Hughes

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Frozen

Posted on November 26, 2013 at 5:00 pm

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Lowest Recommended Age: Kindergarten - 3rd Grade
MPAA Rating: Rated PG for some action and mild rude humor
Profanity: Brief schoolyard language
Alcohol/ Drugs: None
Violence/ Scariness: Scary wolves, snow monster, peril, sad death of parents
Diversity Issues: Strong female characters
Date Released to Theaters: November 27, 2013
Date Released to DVD: March 17, 2014
Amazon.com ASIN: B00G5G7K7O

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Smart, exciting, funny, sweet, tuneful, and gorgeously animated, the Oscar-winning “Frozen” adapts Hans Christian Andersen’s classic fairy tale into a story of two sisters kept apart by a scary secret.  Scary wolves, an enormous snow monster, a perilous journey, a warm (yes)-hearted snowman, a loyal reindeer, a sleigh ride, a sensational ice castle, and a little romance keep things moving briskly, but it is the relationship of the sisters that makes this movie something special.  There’s a surprisingly strong emotional connection.

The king and queen of Arendelle love their two daughters, Elsa and Anna, and the girls are best friends.  Anna loves to ask her big sister to “do the magic,” because Ilsa was born with the special power to create snow and ice.  But an accident almost becomes a tragedy, and the trolls who heal Anna remove her memory of her sister’s gift.

Their parents lock the gates around the castle and keep the girls apart.  They tell Elsa to “conceal it, don’t feel it.”  They want to protect her from those who might be afraid of her ability and protect those she might hurt as she grows up and her gift becomes more powerful.  She wears gloves all the time and stays in her room.  Anna wanders the castle alone, singing to the paintings, with no one to talk to.  Although she no longer remembers the details of their former closeness and the time they spent together, she is devastated that her sister will not see her.

Their parents are lost at sea, and three years later Elsa (Broadway star Idina Menzel) is about to be crowned queen.  Anna (Kristen Bell of “Veronica Mars”) is overjoyed to be seeing her sister and excited about meeting the people who will come through the gates that are opened at last.  She is charmingly awkward, having had no opportunity to learn any social skills, but that does not seem to matter to the very handsome Prince Hans (Santino Fontana), who proposes just a few hours after they meet.  Anna is overjoyed.

But Elsa forbids the marriage and when Anna objects, her frustration and  fury explodes, turning the balmy summer into a frozen winter.  Elsa runs away, locking herself into a dazzling palace made of ice in the mountains.  Anna follows, sure that she can make things right if she can just talk to Elsa about what is going on.  And that is where the adventure begins.  She meets a rough-hewn ice harvester named Kristoff (Jonathan Groff of “Glee”) and his reindeer Sven and a sunny-spirited, warm-hearted, and familiar-looking snowman named Olaf (Josh Gad of “Thank You for Sharing”).  And when they get to the ice palace, things do not turn out the way she expects.

Human animated characters tend to be bland-looking, but the voice talents have enormous spirit that gives them a lot of life.  Broadway stars Menzel, Groff (“Spring Awakening”), Bell (“The Adventures of Tom Sawyer”), and Gad (“The Book of Mormon”) make the most of a tuneful score featuring the Oscar-winning “Let It Go.”  The songs are beautifully acted as well as sung.  Highlights include an adorable ode to summer from Olaf, who is not quite clear on the physical properties of snow as temperatures rise, Kristoff’s “duetted” ode to reindeer with Sven (he sings both parts), and Menzel’s powerful “Let it Go.”  Bell’s sweet voice is lovely as she sings to the paintings in the castle about her longing for people and then exalts in her love for Prince Hans.  There is also a charming ensemble with trolls singing about how we’re all in our own way “fixer-uppers.”

The animation is everything we hope for from Disney, one “how did they do that?” after another, with ice and snow so real and so touchable you may find yourself zipping up your parka in the theater.   But the effects and action are all in service of the story, with a contemporary twist that is as welcome as summer’s return.

NOTE: Be sure to get to the theater in time as one of the highlights is the pre-feature short, starring a vintage Mickey Mouse voiced by Walt Disney himself.  It is a masterpiece of wit and technology that must be seen a couple of times to fully appreciate.  And be sure to stay through the end of the credits for an extra scene re-visiting one of the film’s most powerful characters.

Parents should know that this film include characters in peril, some injuries and action-style scares, monster, the sad deaths of a mother and father, some potty humor, and kissing.

Family discussion:  What’s a fixer-upper?  Why did Elsa’s parents tell her not to feel?  Why was she afraid of her power?  Why didn’t her parents want anyone to know the truth, and how did that make Elsa and Anna feel?  Who do you think is a love expert?

If you like this, try: “Tangled,” “Brave,” and “The Princess and the Frog”

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